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Hold onto Our Exes?

Why Do We Hold onto Our Exes?

June 07, 20251 min read

Still In Love?

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Finding Clarity and Healing After Divorce

One common struggle among those going through a divorce is the feeling of loving their ex-spouse but not being "in love" with them anymore. Kevin addresses this by discussing three typical scenarios:

  1. Holding onto the Past: Many people cling to the person they married, tied to the dreams and promises made during the early days of their relationship.

  2. Future Dreams: Others are attached to the future they had envisioned with their spouse, such as raising children together or celebrating a 50th wedding anniversary.

  3. Fear of Loneliness: For some, the fear of being alone and managing life without their partner is overwhelming.

Listen to Kevin as he highlights the importance of understanding these feelings and working through them with a coach.

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Kevin Van Liere

Divorce Coach, CEO of Rebuilders International

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