While divorce is the end of a relationship, it’s also your doorway to a wonderful life.
As you work through the 10-Week Rebuilding Program, you’ll learn how to let go of the grief, anger and confusion that’s holding you back.
You’ll rediscover joy and purpose, realize your potential and rebuild a life that’s better than before!
There was no Divorce Workshops available near where I live. I was skeptical that an online class could help. The Seminar, with the technology, made it very easy and accessible. All my questions were always answered. The facilitation and teaching were excellent. I made friends with several students – we talk weekly. All of us grew so much as a result of the Seminar
- Chris
Words cannot express the valuable insight I found during my workshop experience. I find myself stronger, much happier & less anxiety-ridden. I believe processing every single emotion truly made the difference. I tell anyone going thru a split to invest in this class. The structure & support of people in the trenches with me, were priceless. You really helped in leading me to the path toward healing.
- Anne N
I believe the most impactful part of our seminar for me was, how it taught me about myself. I became aware that I mattered. I had completely lost myself throughout my life of marriage and kids. I had existed as a non-entity until now. I learned that I am worth focusing on, being taken care of, valued, and cherished. I am worth having a good time, laughing, and my feelings, thoughts and dreams matter! I am a kind and giving person, but I can also take care of ME now as well. I am stronger than I think I am, and I am ENOUGH! This will be a constant journey of self-worth for me, so please keep me in all of your prayers and thoughts. You are all forever with me! Thank you, Nick!!!!!!!!!! Thanks everyone.
- Leisa
When my husband left suddenly and I was new to Denver, I knew I needed help navigating the scary world of separation and divorce. I discovered the The Fisher Rebuilding Seminar through online research and believe this course not only sustained me during a difficult time but also provided key resources for building a life apart from one’s partner. Nick Meima does a superb job of creating a safe space for thoughtful and meaningful exploration during a very fragile time in one’s life. The deliberate and intentional topics help those in distress make sense of what is happening and create new stories for how to create purposeful lives. It has been a time of growth, healing and tremendous encouragement.
- M. Larma
Take this important step and register for the FREE First Class: New Beginnings.
You’ll learn how to:
Use your divorce as a doorway to a wonderful future
Stop the desperation, fear and overwhelm
Transition from being powerless to empowered
Disentangle from your ex-spouse
Stop being codependent
Gain emotional strength, stability and resiliency
You'll learn how to:
Identify destructive and constructive behaviors
Keep moving forward in the process of emotional separation from your partner
Create healthier relationships
Identify the forms of manipulation that cause conflict in relationships
You'll learn how to:
Relate and express your grief
Recognize the negative consequences of avoiding grief
Manage your grief as you let go of the past
Communicate with people who aren’t able to deal with their grief
You'll learn how to:
How to use your anger instead of being used by your anger
Why anger is the most misunderstood emotion
Where you are on the anger continuum and how to deescalate your anger
You'll learn how to:
What masks you have used to protect yourself in the past
The limitations of using masks
Why you can’t get needs met while using your masks
How vulnerability is a strength and a way to create fulfilling relationships
You'll learn how to:
Why you haven’t been able to build self-esteem
How your lack of self-worth has contributed to most of your difficulties and challenges
How disentangling from your ex-partner is essential for your self-esteem
Practical ways to build self-esteem every day
You'll learn how to:
Why old ideas about love need to be replaced
The distinction between attachment and love
Why you can’t give others love if you don’t have it for yourself
What the words “I love you” really mean
You'll learn how to:
What forgiveness is and isn’t
How to forgive others and yourself
Why forgiveness is critical to moving forward
How divorce offers you the opportunity to discover a new purpose
The distinction between life purpose and being purposeful
You'll learn how to:
Why emotional intimacy is a need we all have
Ways to create emotional intimacy with yourself first
Ways to create emotional intimacy with others
Why sexuality and intimacy are often are not the same thing
How to communicate in ways that result in intimacy
You'll learn how to:
How to build the foundation of an authentic life
How to communicate with authenticity
How to draw out authenticity in others
How to create authentic friendships
Key dos and don’ts for dating
Based on Bruce Fisher’s best-selling book, Rebuilding When Your Relationship Ends, this series has been refined over 40 years to enable you to move forward with strength, clarity and wisdom. It includes:
10 weekly online group sessions
In-class exercises
Weekly homework assignments, reviewed in each class
Several individual check-in coaching sessions during the first weeks of the program
A workbook with additional teaching materials and handouts
The Fisher Divorce Adjustment Scale (FDAS) self-tests and interpretation (before and after the program)
Our next live seminar starts Sunday January 12th at 4pm ET (1pm PT)
Nick told me that we all go through the ending alone and that in order to heal and grow we cannot get through by ourselves. The huge amount of support I gained from the book, the teaching, the session with Nick and from my fellow students was amazing.
- Melanie N.
Having served hundreds of students worldwide , we are confident that you will find our 10-week Rebuilding very helpful in moving forward . We offer a “money back guarantee” that you will be satisfied with the 10-week program. If there are any issues, notify us of your concern(s) so we have an opportunity to rectify the matter(s). If we cannot rectify the matter, a full refund will be made.
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Denver, CO 80210
Divorce not only affects emotional well-being but also has significant financial implications. Proper financial planning is crucial to ensure stability and prepare for a new, independent future. Here’s how you can manage your finances during and after divorce.
The first step is understanding your current financial standing. Start by listing all assets, debts, income, and expenses. This will give you a clear picture of where you stand and what needs to be divided during the divorce process. Working with a financial advisor or divorce financial planner can help you navigate this process more effectively.
For additional support on managing the emotional side of divorce, check out Managing Emotional Turmoil During Divorce for strategies on coping while making important financial decisions.
Your financial situation is likely to change after divorce, so creating a realistic budget is essential. Consider how your income, living expenses, and financial responsibilities will shift. Include costs like child support, alimony, housing, and daily living expenses. Make adjustments to fit your new lifestyle, and aim to live within your means.
For more guidance on transitioning emotionally and financially, read Healing After Divorce: The Role of Self-Care and Personal Growth.
Divorce can complicate debts, especially those held jointly. Make sure you and your spouse decide how to divide debts as part of your settlement agreement. If possible, pay off joint debts or transfer balances to individual accounts. Also, be sure to close joint bank accounts and credit cards to avoid future financial entanglements.
Once the divorce is finalized, update all your legal documents to reflect your new status. This includes changing beneficiaries on insurance policies, retirement accounts, and wills. You’ll also want to change any joint ownership of assets, such as your home or vehicles, as well as update your name on financial documents if necessary.
Looking for additional ways to rebuild after divorce? Explore Rebuilding Confidence After Divorce for insights on rediscovering yourself and your financial independence.
Divorce is a financial reset. Once your immediate needs are covered, it’s important to plan for long-term financial health. This might include saving for retirement, building an emergency fund, and investing in your future. Financial planning with a professional can help ensure that your future is secure and aligned with your new goals.
Divorce brings financial challenges, but with proper budgeting, debt management, and future planning, you can build a strong financial foundation for the next chapter of your life.
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