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HEAL AND TRANSFORM THE PAIN OF DIVORCE WITH THE 10-WEEK REBUILDING PROGRAM

While divorce is the end of a relationship, it’s also your doorway to a wonderful life.

As you work through the 10-Week Rebuilding Program, you’ll learn how to let go of the grief, anger and confusion that’s holding you back.

You’ll rediscover joy and purpose, realize your potential and rebuild a life that’s better than before!

WHAT OUR CLIENTS SAY ABOUT THE PROGRAM

There was no Divorce Workshops available near where I live. I was skeptical that an online class could help. The Seminar, with the technology, made it very easy and accessible. All my questions were always answered. The facilitation and teaching were excellent. I made friends with several students – we talk weekly. All of us grew so much as a result of the Seminar

- Chris

Words cannot express the valuable insight I found during my workshop experience. I find myself stronger, much happier & less anxiety-ridden. I believe processing every single emotion truly made the difference. I tell anyone going thru a split to invest in this class. The structure & support of people in the trenches with me, were priceless. You really helped in leading me to the path toward healing.

- Anne N

I believe the most impactful part of our seminar for me was, how it taught me about myself. I became aware that I mattered. I had completely lost myself throughout my life of marriage and kids. I had existed as a non-entity until now. I learned that I am worth focusing on, being taken care of, valued, and cherished. I am worth having a good time, laughing, and my feelings, thoughts and dreams matter! I am a kind and giving person, but I can also take care of ME now as well. I am stronger than I think I am, and I am ENOUGH! This will be a constant journey of self-worth for me, so please keep me in all of your prayers and thoughts. You are all forever with me! Thank you, Nick!!!!!!!!!! Thanks everyone.

- Leisa

When my husband left suddenly and I was new to Denver, I knew I needed help navigating the scary world of separation and divorce. I discovered the The Fisher Rebuilding Seminar through online research and believe this course not only sustained me during a difficult time but also provided key resources for building a life apart from one’s partner. Nick Meima does a superb job of creating a safe space for thoughtful and meaningful exploration during a very fragile time in one’s life. The deliberate and intentional topics help those in distress make sense of what is happening and create new stories for how to create purposeful lives. It has been a time of growth, healing and tremendous encouragement.

- M. Larma

NEW BEGINNINGS


Take this important step and register for the FREE First Class: New Beginnings.

You’ll learn how to:

  • Use your divorce as a doorway to a wonderful future

  • Stop the desperation, fear and overwhelm

  • Transition from being powerless to empowered

  • Disentangle from your ex-spouse

  • Stop being codependent

  • Gain emotional strength, stability and resiliency

ADAPTATION


You'll learn how to:

  • Identify destructive and constructive behaviors

  • Keep moving forward in the process of emotional separation from your partner

  • Create healthier relationships

  • Identify the forms of manipulation that cause conflict in relationships

GRIEF


You'll learn how to:

  • Relate and express your grief

  • Recognize the negative consequences of avoiding grief

  • Manage your grief as you let go of the past

  • Communicate with people who aren’t able to deal with their grief

ANGER


You'll learn how to:

  • How to use your anger instead of being used by your anger

  • Why anger is the most misunderstood emotion

  • Where you are on the anger continuum and how to deescalate your anger

OPENNESS AND VULNERABILITY


You'll learn how to:

  • What masks you have used to protect yourself in the past

  • The limitations of using masks

  • Why you can’t get needs met while using your masks

  • How vulnerability is a strength and a way to create fulfilling relationships

SELF-ESTEEM


You'll learn how to:

  • Why you haven’t been able to build self-esteem

  • How your lack of self-worth has contributed to most of your difficulties and challenges

  • How disentangling from your ex-partner is essential for your self-esteem

  • Practical ways to build self-esteem every day


You'll learn how to:

LOVE

  • Why old ideas about love need to be replaced

  • The distinction between attachment and love

  • Why you can’t give others love if you don’t have it for yourself

  • What the words “I love you” really mean


You'll learn how to:

FORGIVENESS AND PURPOSE

  • What forgiveness is and isn’t

  • How to forgive others and yourself

  • Why forgiveness is critical to moving forward

  • How divorce offers you the opportunity to discover a new purpose

  • The distinction between life purpose and being purposeful


You'll learn how to:

INTIMACY

  • Why emotional intimacy is a need we all have

  • Ways to create emotional intimacy with yourself first

  • Ways to create emotional intimacy with others

  • Why sexuality and intimacy are often are not the same thing

  • How to communicate in ways that result in intimacy


You'll learn how to:

AUTHENTICITY AND NEW RELATIONSHIPS

  • How to build the foundation of an authentic life

  • How to communicate with authenticity

  • How to draw out authenticity in others

  • How to create authentic friendships

  • Key dos and don’ts for dating

Here’s What’s Included in the 10-Week Rebuilding Program:

Support – Information – Practical Tools

Based on Bruce Fisher’s best-selling book, Rebuilding When Your Relationship Ends, this series has been refined over 40 years to enable you to move forward with strength, clarity and wisdom. It includes:

  • 10 weekly online group sessions

  • In-class exercises

  • Weekly homework assignments, reviewed in each class

  • Several individual check-in coaching sessions during the first weeks of the program

  • A workbook with additional teaching materials and handouts

  • The Fisher Divorce Adjustment Scale (FDAS) self-tests and interpretation (before and after the program)

Our next live seminar starts Sunday January 12th at 4pm ET (1pm PT)

WHAT OUR CLIENTS SAY ABOUT THE PROGRAM

Nick told me that we all go through the ending alone and that in order to heal and grow we cannot get through by ourselves. The huge amount of support I gained from the book, the teaching, the session with Nick and from my fellow students was amazing.

- Melanie N.

Refund Policy

Having served hundreds of students worldwide , we are confident that you will find our 10-week Rebuilding very helpful in moving forward . We offer a “money back guarantee” that you will be satisfied with the 10-week program. If there are any issues, notify us of your concern(s) so we have an opportunity to rectify the matter(s). If we cannot rectify the matter, a full refund will be made.

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Denver, CO 80210

Phone: 720-524-3664

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Financial Side of Divorce

The Financial Side of Divorce: Budgeting and Planning for a New Future

October 27, 20242 min read

Divorce not only affects emotional well-being but also has significant financial implications. Proper financial planning is crucial to ensure stability and prepare for a new, independent future. Here’s how you can manage your finances during and after divorce.

1. Assess Your Financial Situation

The first step is understanding your current financial standing. Start by listing all assets, debts, income, and expenses. This will give you a clear picture of where you stand and what needs to be divided during the divorce process. Working with a financial advisor or divorce financial planner can help you navigate this process more effectively.

For additional support on managing the emotional side of divorce, check out Managing Emotional Turmoil During Divorce for strategies on coping while making important financial decisions.

2. Create a Post-Divorce Budget

Your financial situation is likely to change after divorce, so creating a realistic budget is essential. Consider how your income, living expenses, and financial responsibilities will shift. Include costs like child support, alimony, housing, and daily living expenses. Make adjustments to fit your new lifestyle, and aim to live within your means.

For more guidance on transitioning emotionally and financially, read Healing After Divorce: The Role of Self-Care and Personal Growth.

3. Prioritize Debts and Joint Accounts

Divorce can complicate debts, especially those held jointly. Make sure you and your spouse decide how to divide debts as part of your settlement agreement. If possible, pay off joint debts or transfer balances to individual accounts. Also, be sure to close joint bank accounts and credit cards to avoid future financial entanglements.

4. Update Legal and Financial Documents

Once the divorce is finalized, update all your legal documents to reflect your new status. This includes changing beneficiaries on insurance policies, retirement accounts, and wills. You’ll also want to change any joint ownership of assets, such as your home or vehicles, as well as update your name on financial documents if necessary.

Looking for additional ways to rebuild after divorce? Explore Rebuilding Confidence After Divorce for insights on rediscovering yourself and your financial independence.

5. Plan for the Future

Divorce is a financial reset. Once your immediate needs are covered, it’s important to plan for long-term financial health. This might include saving for retirement, building an emergency fund, and investing in your future. Financial planning with a professional can help ensure that your future is secure and aligned with your new goals.

Conclusion

Divorce brings financial challenges, but with proper budgeting, debt management, and future planning, you can build a strong financial foundation for the next chapter of your life.

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Nick Meima

Expert Divorce Coach, Divorce Recovery Group Facilitator

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