While divorce is the end of a relationship, it’s also your doorway to a wonderful life.
As you work through the 10-Week Rebuilding Program, you’ll learn how to let go of the grief, anger and confusion that’s holding you back.
You’ll rediscover joy and purpose, realize your potential and rebuild a life that’s better than before!
There was no Divorce Workshops available near where I live. I was skeptical that an online class could help. The Seminar, with the technology, made it very easy and accessible. All my questions were always answered. The facilitation and teaching were excellent. I made friends with several students – we talk weekly. All of us grew so much as a result of the Seminar
- Chris
Words cannot express the valuable insight I found during my workshop experience. I find myself stronger, much happier & less anxiety-ridden. I believe processing every single emotion truly made the difference. I tell anyone going thru a split to invest in this class. The structure & support of people in the trenches with me, were priceless. You really helped in leading me to the path toward healing.
- Anne N
I believe the most impactful part of our seminar for me was, how it taught me about myself. I became aware that I mattered. I had completely lost myself throughout my life of marriage and kids. I had existed as a non-entity until now. I learned that I am worth focusing on, being taken care of, valued, and cherished. I am worth having a good time, laughing, and my feelings, thoughts and dreams matter! I am a kind and giving person, but I can also take care of ME now as well. I am stronger than I think I am, and I am ENOUGH! This will be a constant journey of self-worth for me, so please keep me in all of your prayers and thoughts. You are all forever with me! Thank you, Nick!!!!!!!!!! Thanks everyone.
- Leisa
When my husband left suddenly and I was new to Denver, I knew I needed help navigating the scary world of separation and divorce. I discovered the The Fisher Rebuilding Seminar through online research and believe this course not only sustained me during a difficult time but also provided key resources for building a life apart from one’s partner. Nick Meima does a superb job of creating a safe space for thoughtful and meaningful exploration during a very fragile time in one’s life. The deliberate and intentional topics help those in distress make sense of what is happening and create new stories for how to create purposeful lives. It has been a time of growth, healing and tremendous encouragement.
- M. Larma
Take this important step and register for the FREE First Class: New Beginnings.
You’ll learn how to:
Use your divorce as a doorway to a wonderful future
Stop the desperation, fear and overwhelm
Transition from being powerless to empowered
Disentangle from your ex-spouse
Stop being codependent
Gain emotional strength, stability and resiliency
You'll learn how to:
Identify destructive and constructive behaviors
Keep moving forward in the process of emotional separation from your partner
Create healthier relationships
Identify the forms of manipulation that cause conflict in relationships
You'll learn how to:
Relate and express your grief
Recognize the negative consequences of avoiding grief
Manage your grief as you let go of the past
Communicate with people who aren’t able to deal with their grief
You'll learn how to:
How to use your anger instead of being used by your anger
Why anger is the most misunderstood emotion
Where you are on the anger continuum and how to deescalate your anger
You'll learn how to:
What masks you have used to protect yourself in the past
The limitations of using masks
Why you can’t get needs met while using your masks
How vulnerability is a strength and a way to create fulfilling relationships
You'll learn how to:
Why you haven’t been able to build self-esteem
How your lack of self-worth has contributed to most of your difficulties and challenges
How disentangling from your ex-partner is essential for your self-esteem
Practical ways to build self-esteem every day
You'll learn how to:
Why old ideas about love need to be replaced
The distinction between attachment and love
Why you can’t give others love if you don’t have it for yourself
What the words “I love you” really mean
You'll learn how to:
What forgiveness is and isn’t
How to forgive others and yourself
Why forgiveness is critical to moving forward
How divorce offers you the opportunity to discover a new purpose
The distinction between life purpose and being purposeful
You'll learn how to:
Why emotional intimacy is a need we all have
Ways to create emotional intimacy with yourself first
Ways to create emotional intimacy with others
Why sexuality and intimacy are often are not the same thing
How to communicate in ways that result in intimacy
You'll learn how to:
How to build the foundation of an authentic life
How to communicate with authenticity
How to draw out authenticity in others
How to create authentic friendships
Key dos and don’ts for dating
Based on Bruce Fisher’s best-selling book, Rebuilding When Your Relationship Ends, this series has been refined over 40 years to enable you to move forward with strength, clarity and wisdom. It includes:
10 weekly online group sessions
In-class exercises
Weekly homework assignments, reviewed in each class
Several individual check-in coaching sessions during the first weeks of the program
A workbook with additional teaching materials and handouts
The Fisher Divorce Adjustment Scale (FDAS) self-tests and interpretation (before and after the program)
Our next live seminar starts Sunday January 12th at 4pm ET (1pm PT)
Nick told me that we all go through the ending alone and that in order to heal and grow we cannot get through by ourselves. The huge amount of support I gained from the book, the teaching, the session with Nick and from my fellow students was amazing.
- Melanie N.
Having served hundreds of students worldwide , we are confident that you will find our 10-week Rebuilding very helpful in moving forward . We offer a “money back guarantee” that you will be satisfied with the 10-week program. If there are any issues, notify us of your concern(s) so we have an opportunity to rectify the matter(s). If we cannot rectify the matter, a full refund will be made.
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Those going through a separation can have a lot to deal with, from emotions to finances. And, while they might not have all of the answers, they can still get help from divorce consultants. these guides can alleviate some of the stress, whether you are seeking legal assistance, sharing custody of the children, or simply trying to get over the pain of a bad breakup. However, not everyone has the means or courage to be a part of on-site groups. In this case, you get help from online divorce counseling. You might wonder if there is such a thing. Well, there are many of them. However, choosing the right one and how they can help you is another question.
Let us help you find the answer to these questions in this blog.
How to Choose the Right Online Divorce Support Group?
When you have too many options and every other claims to be the best one, it is natural to be more overwhelmed. You are already going through a lot, one more work seems too much. To help you cut some sack from your already full plate, here are the factors you must consider for the right choice:
Type of Meetings
First, consider the type of experience you would like to have. Are you looking for a group that offers you additional clinical or classroom experience? Do you require a group like this that can supply you with various resources to aid in your recovery? Perhaps you are seeking a more personal group where you can talk to other members and receive emotional support. When most people hear the phrase "divorce support group," they tend to envision this.
Does the group have a clear structure?
The greatest online divorce support groups are well-organized and not simply open platforms for kvetching.
Ideally, you'll want a group that meets on a regular basis so you know you'll get assistance. A regular online meeting time makes it easy to schedule around your employment and locate daycare (if necessary). A consistent timetable forces you to devote time to yourself, this subject, and your development.
To get the most out of the group, you must know what the topic of each meeting will be ahead of time. This will help you to not only ensure that the topics suit your requirements, but also prepare for each session.
You should also search for the expected outcome of joining the group. A meaningful program will have a clear goal for each member to attain. This intention will give you a better understanding of how the facilitator will lead the group.
Cost & Fee
Online communities give you resources such as therapists and other necessary services.
So, they may charge a small price to join or a monthly cost, and it does assist in keeping the group together when everyone contributes.
However, you must ensure that you are not overpaying for anything that will not benefit you. If there is a fee, find out how much it is and what you will get for it.
Evaluate groups carefully
Check the group's description and regulations to ensure a good fit. Check out how long it's been operating and how many members there are. Look for a vibrant, dynamic group with plenty of conversation.
Participate in a live chat if feasible to get a sense of the group dynamics. Make sure the atmosphere is friendly, inclusive, and well-moderated. Continue searching to see if anything makes you nervous.
As a whole, support groups can be of many benefits. You need people to counsel you and help you get through it without becoming a victim. So, here are the major benefits of it:
Coping Strategies and Practical Advice
Divorce support groups provide individuals with a variety of coping skills and practical dyadic conversations to help them negotiate the problems of ending a partnership. Participants can benefit from those who have already completed the process and received significant insights along the way.
Group participants may exchange practical ways for managing co-parenting obligations, navigating legal processes, managing finances, and reconstructing their lives after divorce/breakup. These shared experiences and practical recommendations enable people to make educated decisions and take charge of their situations.
Shared Experiences
Connecting with others facing similar struggles fosters a sense of community. Hearing other people's experiences can provide you with new views and perspectives. You may discover solutions or coping tactics you hadn't considered previously.
To get the most out of an online support group, overcome any reservations about joining, begin by listening to get a feel for the group, share when you are comfortable, and offer assistance to others. Keep an open mind, ask questions, and determine whether the group is a good fit for you. Online support groups are worthwhile to explore due to their many such benefits.
Range of Options
There are groups for nearly every disease, situation, and interest. This means you can discover one that caters to your individual requirements and tastes. Look for communities dedicated to a common diagnosis, life difficulty, or passion.
Access to Resources
Many divorce support groups collaborate with local organizations and professionals to provide additional resources. These resources could include legal assistance, counseling services, financial planning classes, and more. Being a member of a support group generally entails obtaining access to a larger network of resources that can help with various facets of the divorce process.
Now, if you are having trouble going through the on-site counseling groups, well, you don’t have to. We at Rebuilders are offering the best online divorce consultation to everyone struggling. With our team, you will be exposed to the best resources and best ways to cope with the hard truths of your divorce. We get how many feelings are overflowing within you. Your gut might be acting weird too, but our groups will ease up your symptoms and help you go through it all easily and simply. Just reach out and let’s work on it together.
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