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HEAL AND TRANSFORM THE PAIN OF DIVORCE WITH THE 10-WEEK REBUILDING PROGRAM
While divorce is the end of a relationship, it’s also your doorway to a wonderful life.
As you work through the 10-Week Rebuilding Program, you’ll learn how to let go of the grief, anger and confusion that’s holding you back.
You’ll rediscover joy and purpose, realize your potential and rebuild a life that’s better than before!
WHAT OUR CLIENTS SAY ABOUT THE PROGRAM
There was no Divorce Workshops available near where I live. I was skeptical that an online class could help. The Seminar, with the technology, made it very easy and accessible. All my questions were always answered. The facilitation and teaching were excellent. I made friends with several students – we talk weekly. All of us grew so much as a result of the Seminar
- Chris
Words cannot express the valuable insight I found during my workshop experience. I find myself stronger, much happier & less anxiety-ridden. I believe processing every single emotion truly made the difference. I tell anyone going thru a split to invest in this class. The structure & support of people in the trenches with me, were priceless. You really helped in leading me to the path toward healing.
- Anne N
I believe the most impactful part of our seminar for me was, how it taught me about myself. I became aware that I mattered. I had completely lost myself throughout my life of marriage and kids. I had existed as a non-entity until now. I learned that I am worth focusing on, being taken care of, valued, and cherished. I am worth having a good time, laughing, and my feelings, thoughts and dreams matter! I am a kind and giving person, but I can also take care of ME now as well. I am stronger than I think I am, and I am ENOUGH! This will be a constant journey of self-worth for me, so please keep me in all of your prayers and thoughts. You are all forever with me! Thank you, Nick!!!!!!!!!! Thanks everyone.
- Leisa
When my husband left suddenly and I was new to Denver, I knew I needed help navigating the scary world of separation and divorce. I discovered the The Fisher Rebuilding Seminar through online research and believe this course not only sustained me during a difficult time but also provided key resources for building a life apart from one’s partner. Nick Meima does a superb job of creating a safe space for thoughtful and meaningful exploration during a very fragile time in one’s life. The deliberate and intentional topics help those in distress make sense of what is happening and create new stories for how to create purposeful lives. It has been a time of growth, healing and tremendous encouragement.
- M. Larma
NEW BEGINNINGS
Take this important step and register for the FREE First Class: New Beginnings.
You’ll learn how to:
Use your divorce as a doorway to a wonderful future
Stop the desperation, fear and overwhelm
Transition from being powerless to empowered
Disentangle from your ex-spouse
Stop being codependent
Gain emotional strength, stability and resiliency
ADAPTATION
You'll learn how to:
Identify destructive and constructive behaviors
Keep moving forward in the process of emotional separation from your partner
Create healthier relationships
Identify the forms of manipulation that cause conflict in relationships
GRIEF
You'll learn how to:
Relate and express your grief
Recognize the negative consequences of avoiding grief
Manage your grief as you let go of the past
Communicate with people who aren’t able to deal with their grief
ANGER
You'll learn how to:
How to use your anger instead of being used by your anger
Why anger is the most misunderstood emotion
Where you are on the anger continuum and how to deescalate your anger
OPENNESS AND VULNERABILITY
You'll learn how to:
What masks you have used to protect yourself in the past
The limitations of using masks
Why you can’t get needs met while using your masks
How vulnerability is a strength and a way to create fulfilling relationships
SELF-ESTEEM
You'll learn how to:
Why you haven’t been able to build self-esteem
How your lack of self-worth has contributed to most of your difficulties and challenges
How disentangling from your ex-partner is essential for your self-esteem
Practical ways to build self-esteem every day
You'll learn how to:
LOVE
Why old ideas about love need to be replaced
The distinction between attachment and love
Why you can’t give others love if you don’t have it for yourself
What the words “I love you” really mean
You'll learn how to:
FORGIVENESS AND PURPOSE
What forgiveness is and isn’t
How to forgive others and yourself
Why forgiveness is critical to moving forward
How divorce offers you the opportunity to discover a new purpose
The distinction between life purpose and being purposeful
You'll learn how to:
INTIMACY
Why emotional intimacy is a need we all have
Ways to create emotional intimacy with yourself first
Ways to create emotional intimacy with others
Why sexuality and intimacy are often are not the same thing
How to communicate in ways that result in intimacy
You'll learn how to:
AUTHENTICITY AND NEW RELATIONSHIPS
How to build the foundation of an authentic life
How to communicate with authenticity
How to draw out authenticity in others
How to create authentic friendships
Key dos and don’ts for dating
Here’s What’s Included in the 10-Week Rebuilding Program:
Support – Information – Practical Tools
Based on Bruce Fisher’s best-selling book, Rebuilding When Your Relationship Ends, this series has been refined over 40 years to enable you to move forward with strength, clarity and wisdom. It includes:
10 weekly online group sessions
In-class exercises
Weekly homework assignments, reviewed in each class
Several individual check-in coaching sessions during the first weeks of the program
A workbook with additional teaching materials and handouts
The Fisher Divorce Adjustment Scale (FDAS) self-tests and interpretation (before and after the program)
Our next live seminar starts Sunday January 12th at 4pm ET (1pm PT)
WHAT OUR CLIENTS SAY ABOUT THE PROGRAM
Nick told me that we all go through the ending alone and that in order to heal and grow we cannot get through by ourselves. The huge amount of support I gained from the book, the teaching, the session with Nick and from my fellow students was amazing.
- Melanie N.
Refund Policy
Having served hundreds of students worldwide , we are confident that you will find our 10-week Rebuilding very helpful in moving forward . We offer a “money back guarantee” that you will be satisfied with the 10-week program. If there are any issues, notify us of your concern(s) so we have an opportunity to rectify the matter(s). If we cannot rectify the matter, a full refund will be made.
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DIVORCE SUPPORT RECENT POSTS
Inside the Numbers: Statistical Insights on Divorce Timing
University of Washington Associate sociology professor Julie Brines and doctoral candidate Brian Serafini analyzed the numbers of people that filed for divorce in Washington state from 2001 to 2015. What they found is that March had the highest number of filings and December the lowest.
This makes sense because most people don't want to file during the holiday season. Then after the holidays have passed and they realize that they don't want to spend another holiday like the most recent then start filing.
In the most commonly cited article it shows a chart that looks like the top of Batman's head, two very large peaks in March and August are the top of his ears.
News articles and statistics often reference this article because it is the only study that has been conducted that actually puts some numbers on the rate of divorce on a monthly basis.
Unfortunately this chart is terrible.
It makes it look like there is a massive change in March and a huge drop off after August. Nothing could be farther from the truth.
I love statistics and math and I want to be honest in what we do. So I did some digging.
In another article Julie Brines mentions some actual numbers: March had 570 divorce filings, August had 558, and December had 430.
This is what I needed to analyze the numbers. I recreated the chart and mapped a new chart on top of the chart above in order to get as close to the "ln" numbers shown. Then I was able to turn the "ln" numbers into actual numbers using the 3 numbers above as a reference.
From this I was able to translate the numbers and put them into 2 years of data to see how they actually compare month to month.
A Better View of How Many people file each month
This graph shows that, indeed there is a fairly large drop off in filings from November to December (19%) and then the number of people filing rebounds just above previous levels. The rate continues to rise slightly until March and then it tapers back to the average levels. And yes, there is a small bump in August again until the numbers start to drop off, SLIGHTLY until December hits again.
How does this affect you?
If you are considering divorce and need help you will find that lawyers know that January through March is when they will have more people looking for help. Rates may go up, availability goes down.
The courts will have more people filing which could mean more delays.
Nevertheless, the differences aren't as massive as you might think. So, if you are ready to file OR if you are not wanting a divorce now you have better perspective on what others are doing.
Learn more about how to manage the difficult emotions at Rebuilders.net
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